I have been pondering for a while about why I want to be an online marketer(i’m still a newbie!). First I came up with answers like “I wanna make money” or “I want a nice house/car/yacht etc)” or “I can spend more quality time with loved ones”. But what I’ve discovered at the end was that the ultimate goal of being an online marketer was really “Being Happy”.
Why do I want to make more money?? Because that will make me happy!!
Why do I want a nice house/car/yacht etc?? Because that will make me happy!!
Why do I want to spend more time with loved ones?? Because that will make me happy!!
Isn’t it interesting that all my goals in life end up with “Being Happy” as the ultimate answer?? It sounds like kindergarten stuff but I only just figured it all out now!! I’m not kidding!!
Then I started to look around people everywhere I go and I realized that many people are simply not happy. They always say things like: “When I make a million dollars I’ll be happy” or “When I have that new car I’ll be happy”.
The sad truth is that those people are almost never gonna be happy. What I believe is that even if they win the lotto they’ll still be unhappy from the inside!! They are most likely still have negative energies like fear, hatred, blame(and more) inside them and the money is just a cover up.
My understanding is that you need to learn to be happy to have true happiness. What I mean is that you need to build “muscles”…..the happiness muscles. Have you seen people around who don’t have all the material things but they are happy?? And have you seen people who have lots of materials possessions around them but they never look happy?? I’m sure anyone reading this knows what I’m trying to say.
So how about start building Happiness Muscles today?? Instead of waiting or pushing hard in life to achieve all our dreams and goals, why can’t we just be happier and sail through our life journey??
Here is a great video I bumped into a few days ago which I finally just clicked and had an AHA moment!! There are 9 timeless secrets to be happy in this video and I agree with them wholeheartedly. I truly hope you all can learn something from this great video as well.
As usual, feel free to leave comments below and tell me what you think.